Attention Boys And Pearls

   Happy Friday my lovely Gem Steadies, intern BB here! You may have noticed that Gem Steady has tackled the shiny and luxurious world of Pearls lately and it turns out that Pearls are good for much more than sitting pretty around your neck.

   Let’s dive deep into the ocean where the mollusk(origin of the Pearl) is minding his own business, when suddenly a grain of sand or a pesky parasite sneaks into the shell and makes itself at home. The poor invaded mollusk must now try to protect itself from the intruder by forming a hard and smooth surface around the particle. If the intruder hangs around long enough, the Pearl will continue to form, layer by layer. The Pearl is usually formed within one to six years and it sure is worth the wait!

  Pearls are considered to be a sign of purity and innocence. Just like a child, the quiet and calm little beauties are known to be very absorbent to whatever situations they are exposed to. Keep your strand of Pearls at home when you are expecting negativity to be present, so your little Pearls do not soak up the bad vibes.

  On the contrary, worn in a positive and healthy environment, your Pearls will become engulfed with positive energy and the best of vibes. Exposing Pearls to these good vibes will allow them to work in your favor and bring peace and enlightenment into your life.

  An interesting fact about my Pearl pals is that they are connected with treating blood related disorders and maintaining a good body temperature. Pearls have been said to give off a chilled effect when in contact with skin and can balance out bodily fluids. Traditional Indian medicine had an array of uses for the Pearl including jaundice, eye complications and Pearls were used to help people who had gone mad. Pearls are relatively easy to ground up, making them the perfect fit to use in medicine, potions and special drinks. However, I do suggest talking with your doctor before crushing up your Pearl necklace and mixing it with your breakfast smoothie(just in case)!

 The Pearl wants to help you feel a sense of peace and clarity within the mind. Pearls bring-out sensitivity and compassion within even the hardest of souls. In addition to the Pearl’s soothing effect, it will also aide in concentration.  I experienced this first hand last night when I zipped through hours of homework  without being tempted to visit Facebook. Good thing I was wearing my Pearl necklace!

   It is quite remarkable that an oyster’s defense mechanism against foreign bodies eventually becomes a lustrous and pure Pearl, that we get to wear and enjoy for a lifetime.  Do you have a favorite Pearl piece? Have you ever experienced the power of a Pearl? We would love to read all of your stories!

  Searching for a new Pearl piece? Click here to view Gem Steady’s offerings!

  Thank you all for being such a lovely audience and I hope you take away some fascinating information about Pearls!

 Love Intern BB

Energy Vampires. How To Spot One And Avoid Being Sucked Dry.

Hi! Coach Brit C here! Do you have people in your life who are exhausting to be around? Have you ever left a social encounter feeling depleted? Do you have certain 'friends' you can only handle spending time with once every six months? If you've answered yes to any of these questions; you, my dear, have got yourself an energy vampire. These types of vampires are not so different than your precious Edward Cullen. Only it's not blood an energy vampire feeds on. These beings feed on the energy of those around them.

 Here are a few different types of vampires to get familiar with:

1. The Sob Sister.
The sob sister (or brother) is someone who constantly wallows in self pity and talks repeatedly of their shortcomings. The Sob Sister/Brother has no interest in finding a solution to their problems, but always has some kind of horrible or inconvenient situation to chat you up about.

2.The Blamer.
The Blamer does just that. Blame. If a situation doesn't work out as planned, or something doesn't go their way you can bet your sweet ass they'll be blaming someone else. They will try their hardest to make you feel really guilty about it too. They're real good at that.

3. The Drama Queen.
The Drama Queen (or King) makes a big deal about everything. No matter the situation it is "OMG. SUCH a huge ordeal". Always has relationship drama and constantly blows things out of proportion.

Energy vampires often possess the following traits:

*Constant Talker/Joke Teller- Loves being the center of attention and the sound of their own voice.

*Clingy and needy - Always wants you to fix their problems or give them advice.

*Stone Cold Meany- Puts others down to make themselves feel better. Someone who has extremely low self esteem and gains energy by gossiping or making fun of other people and making them feel just as bad as he/she does. These meanies are motivated by negativity and get a rush from intentionally hurting others.


Ok. Now that we know how to spot and identify an energy vampire its time to learn how to deal with the ones in our life.

It's a well know saying that 'misery loves company', so if you have the option of avoiding this person or persons then by all means; stay away.

If this is not an option here are some tips I have adapted from this site right here.

1. Ground yourself.
Make the conscious decision to not be affected. You are a huge pine tree with roots deep into the ground and cannot by moved. You are sturdy and strong and can only being budged by intense beauty or kind words. No negativity can break me.

2. Shield Yourself.
Envision a protective force surrounding you that cannot be penetrated by negative energy. You are surrounded by love. Keep your shield strong and do not let this guard down. It will break if you aren't on your toes.

3.Bring backup.
If you must be in a situation with an energy vampire bring along some friends to help soak up the blows. Observe the group and take notes on how the others are handling the vampire. Then tell your friends you're sorry for doing that to them.

4.Be a good listener.
Chances are if you're dealing with an energy vampire they got this way because of many negative experiences they've had along their path. Try listening without inputting to see if the root issues ever arise. It might not be fun, but it'll be a valiant effort of help if anything.

5.Lend a helping hand.
Is their negativity a cry for help? Can you do anything for this person?

6.Keep it light and friendly.
When speaking with an energy vampire stay away from heavy topics. Don't talk about the Illuminati. Keep it light to avoid triggering a freaking avalanche.

7.Limit contact or cut ties completely.
Like I said earlier; if you can help it, stay the hell away. This may sound harsh, but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.

And since I'm into this kind of thing....There are many gemstones out there that can help protect us from negative energy and the psychic attacks of energy vampires. Including.....

Amethyst

Garnet

 and 

Quartz

to name a few.

Try carrying some rocks around with you, or wearing some handmade jewelry.

I hope this post wasn't too draining. Maybe some of you even had a little revelation about certain people in your lives. If you read this and then realized that you, yourself are the energy vampire don't be too hard on yourself. Take a look at the traits you possess or the actions that describe your vampirism and see what might be done to change. If you have a past full of negative experiences that you carry around with you, maybe its time to shed that old heavy coat and start today new. 

Thank you for reading this far. Do you know any energy vampires? How do you cope?

I realize this has been a long post. Hope you have a great week. And don't forget to spread the Gem Steady vibe.

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Happiness Is A Green Stone

  Happy Friday Lovely Gem Steadies, intern BB here! Can you believe tomorrow is the last day of August already? Lets pay tribute by introducing the August birthstone, Peridot to the Gem Steady blog. Peridot is a marvelous opaque gem that is usually green as the rolling hills of Ireland. In ancient times, Peridot was known as the stone of springtime and brought renewal to nature and people.

 Peridot’s ancient powers have carried over to current day, as it is the perfect gem for those seeking change and for anyone looking to rid of old baggage. Think of Peridot as a wise older sister because it knows that living in the past is unhealthy and it always has your best interest at heart. You know that rocky breakup that haunts your brain like a wickedly catchy Miley Cyrus song? Wrap your wrists in some Peridot and begin your journey into a bright and positive future, letting go of past negativities.  

  You may be skeptical of how a little green gem can do something as magical as erasing a troubled past, but the answer is quite simple. Peridot is the perfect positivity promoter(my apologies for such a tongue twister) and the gem supports a very healthy way of thinking. Peridot wants to help you let go of grudges, spite and jealousy while providing a non-egotistical dose of confidence.

  Peridot is fantastic for those who want to embrace the idea of self-forgiveness and forgiveness of others. Our little green gem will remind you to cut yourself a break here and there, and take past mistakes and learn from them. Don’t dwell on the bad, remove the positive pieces from negative memories and let go of the rest.

  The good vibes of Peridot expand even further as it helps you realize your own flaws(especially negativity) and can help you see things in a new light. Peridot strives to help those who see the glass as half empty and with a willing soul, it can reshape our way of thinking to see how full that glass really is. Any Peridot piece will proudly make its owner aware of the beauties of life and the power of forgiveness.

  I hope you enjoyed learning about the August birthstone and embrace its positive vibes!  Now tell me readers, what would you LOVE to see on the Gem Steady blog? Leave us some love and ideas in the comment box bellow!

Here is some Peridot by Gem Steady

Thank you so much for reading!

Love Intern BB

Let What You Love Be What You Do.

Hey there, Steady Gemmers. This is Coach Brit C. Thanks for checking out my second installment on the Gem Steady blog. It's good to be here. I was clicking around on Pinterest just a minute ago and came upon this quote:

 "Let what you love be what you do."

Sounds great, right? Let what you love be what you do....
After thinking about it briefly I came to the conclusion that I was really glad to be able to say THAT I DO love what I do. And it's awesome.

I play with gems all day.
I love those.
I get to hang out with my cute husband while he makes badass jewelry.
I love that.
I talk to strangers on the internet all the time about rings and being awesome.
Whats not to love there?
And most importantly I do my best to spread the Gem Steady ultra mega positive vibes.
My number one favorite thing to do.

I love it.

Applying this motto isn't as tough as some of you might be thinking. I'm not saying quit your job and ditch your family in pursuit of your dreams as a trapeze artist. No! But maybe pick up an aerial aerobics class once a week or something. If you love puppies; volunteer at the homeless dog shelter. Collect those stamps you're so smitten with. Write a song. Dust off that old guitar. Get out your oil paints and pretend to be Monet. Or Bob Ross. Or yourself doing something you love.

If you haven't read my first entry I encourage you to do so. I touch on how important gratitude is in living a happy, successful life. Being successful doesn't mean having a trillion dollars or the biggest mansion. Being successful is waking up everyday feeling great, full of gratitude, and doing what you love.

Take a few minutes after you read this and make a list of the things you love. People, places, hobbies... Then  pick one thing and figure out how you can 'do what you love' at least one time in the next seven days. Call that person you love or write them a letter. Visit that place. Revive that hobby... Nothing is too small or irrelevant as long you're loving it while you're doing it. Just sit outside in silence for a little while. Joy and happiness can come from anywhere.

This is your life. Take some time out for YOU.

Tell me what you love and what makes you happy. Comment below about how you can 'let what you love be what you do.' I'll look forward to reading your input.



See you again soon.

xoxo,

                   

                       Brit C.

Gem Steady adj. 1. The art of vibing out to the max. Being so incredibly awesome it almost hurts. Focusing on the good and trying your best all da tiz-ime. Spreading that positive energy everywhere you go. Word.

A Gem Of All Trades

 Happy Friday my lovely gem steadies, intern BB here! Are you ready for this week's star stone to be revealed? This little charmer is a member of the Quartz family, is double terminated(meaning it is pointy on several ends) and it was discovered in Herkimer County New York. In case you haven’t guessed, it is the Herkimer Diamond, and wow is it a stunner with all sorts of cool powers.  These gems are quite unique, not just because of their rarity, but they can have some neat “deformations”. Sometimes Herkimers will grow in clusters and there will be various sizes within each cluster. Other times the Herkimer diamond can have a fluid inclusion, where bits of water or oil get trapped inside of the stone.

  The Herkimer Diamond is a very peaceful gem, and is well known for its forgiving powers. Herkimer Diamonds can erase grudges that took a lifetime to form, and can help one to see the world in a new peaceful way.  Our pal Herkimer wants you to hold onto close, and important relationships and this gem works kind of like a friendship bracelet. Before parting ways with a loved one, each person should retain a Herkimer Diamond and it will promote telepathy between the two people. Herkimers are also said to retain information that can be retrieved at a later time.

  In addition to being a peaceful attunement stone, the Herkimer Diamond is a natural pain reliever. In a way, it is sort of the Aspirin of the gem universe. Simply place your favorite Herkimer on the pain-afflicted area and let the energetic currents of the stone work some magic. Herkimers are also great for getting rid of toxins and impurities within the body. In the past they have been used to correct imbalances within DNA and they have aided cellular disorders and metabolic rate.

   Going back to the Herkimer Diamond being a peaceful stone, it is a fabulous tension easer. Herkimers can bring a care free harmony to one’s self and it is a great stone for the super-stressed. Start wearing you favorite Herkimer piece to those stressful work meetings to feel a great sense of relaxation. Herkimers are very simple to use for stress relief. Simply place a Herkimer Diamond around the area facing grief, may it be your head, heart or anywhere else and let the good vibes kick in.

  Have I mention the Herkimer Diamond is an amazingly beautiful stone? Honestly, this gem has a lot of great qualities and is much more affordable than a real “diamond”, so there can be a little bit of Herkimer in everyone’s life, including yours! Gem Steady currently has some stunning Herkimer pieces waiting to work wonders for your life(and look pretty wrapped around your finger).

Click here to see some Gem Steady Herkimers!

And Here!

  Thank you all so much for reading! Do you have a favorite gem? Leave it in a comment below and it could be next week's gem!

 Have a beautiful week my gem steadies!

Love BB

  

Once In A Blue Moon

  Hello my lovely Gem Steadies! Did you know that something spectacular is happening in the sky tonight? Peek out your windows at 9:45 pm tonight and you can see the blue moon.  You may be wondering what a blue moon is and why it is so darn special. Luckily I am prepared to tackle your most perplexing curiosities about the blue moon. The namesake of beer and a song covered by Billie Holiday, Elvis and Bob Dylan, the blue moon has been inspirational to many and is quite fascinating.

    Ready for some fun blue moon facts? The moon tonight will not actually be blue. It is more likely that the blue moon will be(drum roll please)… red. That’s right, red! A haze caused by weather and atmospheric conditions can give our sweet blue moon a reddish tint.

  Did you know the blue moon happens only once in a blue moon? Tonight’s blue moon will be the first in nearly three years. Most seasons have three full moons, but this season has four. Tonight’s blue moon is referred to as the third full moon in a four full moon season.  

  Throughout time, the blue moon has been referred to as the full red moon, the green corn moon and the full sturgeon moon.

  Now, going back to our Gem Steady roots, the moonstone is especially powerful and healing during a full moon. Known as the stone of new beginnings, moonstones promote lucid dreaming, intuition, empathy and can enhance psychic ability. Moonstones are also great for creating an even temper in both men and women and can rid of emotional instabilities. If you currently possess a moonstone piece, place it near your heart tonight during the blue moon and see what feelings take over your body. Or just sit back and enjoy the beautiful view… Maybe even crack open a blue moon?

  Extra, Extra: Pull out your cameras and snap some photos of the blue moon tonight and they will be added to this post!

 -Love BB

I Just Called To Say I Love You.

Hello, people of the internet. This is Brittany Cole Stadtmiller, inventor of Gem Steady.
"Just what is Gem Steady" you might ask. "What does is mean?"
Gem Steady is many things, and the name is continually evolving. Most prevalent at the moment is the Gem Steady jewelry line. Thought tonight we are going to focus on where this thing all got started; with Life Coach Brittany C.

I've been thinking a lot lately about my previous ventures as a life coach, and wanted to make sure Gem Steady is staying true to is its roots as a positive vibe movement, while also pursuing the world of glitz, glamour, and jewels . Although I absolutely adore creating rings with my husband all day, our company stands for much more than a pile of rocks and silver.
This project has evolved substantially since it's beginnings not so long ago. Some of you may be familiar with the official definition of Gem Steady, and if you're not you can click this link right here to find out what it is.

In the past (less than a) year I have been lucky enough to meet(reunite with) and marry my amazing partner who has helped turn my made up term into more than just an adjective in the Urban Dictionary.

Together we are chasing our dreams, and step by step are paving a path and crossing off goals from our lists. I am so grateful for this, and every opportunity that has come our way this far. And I know what a difference gratitude and a positive mindset can make, and how dramatically my life changed once I grasped that concept.

That being said.....
I'd like to revive my role as Life Coach Brittany C. and offer tips on vibing to the max and feeling the best you've ever felt. I hope to post here on a regular basis and get everyone's levels on rocket level ten million.

Let's take a look at today's assignment...

I have a deck of cards with positive phrases on them. I just drew the one above randomly from the pile, and I think this is probably a good one for us to start out with. Read this to yourself a few times over and let it resonate for a minute 

'I am grateful and appreciate all the abundance I have in my life today'.

Whether you're a seasoned Steady Gemmer or brand new to the art of vibing this is a good one to practice focusing on. More often than not it seems easier to complain about our problems, or dwell on situations that didn't go your way. This habit of 'venting', or talking about all the negative things in our lives does absolutely nothing to benefit us. In fact, it draws more stuff into you life to complain about. So do yourself a favor. Stop complaining and read that sentence I posted above. Take three minutes (or more) to appreciate something great you have. Did you eat today? That must've cool to have food. You're reading this right now. That probably means you have eyes. Do you have a cute dog? A friendly cat? Are you musically inclined? How many shirts do you own? What do you love? 

Even if you're in the worst, most gawdawefulmood I'm sure there is at least one thing going for you. Find it. Dwell on it. And even if you hate this project; do it anyway as an experiment everyday until you've reached the hypothesis that you were wrong about hating it all along and now you feel amazing.

But seriously. 

It feels great to be back as Coach Brit C and I'm gonna try my little heart out to help the universe have happy, productive, and awesome days while simultaneously slinging some seriously awesome jewels.

So. If you're into down with positive energy and flashy rocks please follow me on Instagram, Twitter, and Pintrest @gemsteady. Find me on Facebook and check out our site gemsteady.com.

Also!

Stay tuned for a brand new post by the Gem Steady intern BB all about tomorrows Blue Moon. She's going to have some fun facts  and tell us all about why this is the perfect time for new beginnings!

Thank You For Reading!

 I am grateful for YOU!